
There are three widely desperate dictionary meanings to the word “mortification”. Extreme social embarrassment, religious concentration on spiritual over bodily matters, and medical tissues dying. I mix them all and will use mortification as an alternative to “aging” which has become far too overloaded with connotations. Especially extreme aging after 80 or so.
Mortification in the eldest elders fits the definition pretty well. There is shame at the loss of abilities, health, and social meaning. There is a need to concentrate on almost anything except the physical, as mind and body noticeably deteriorate, often rapidly. And there is the hard realization that creeping death of parts will eventually, not too distantly, become death of all.
I especially, like many of my peers, grasp at the spiritual aspect. It is the simplest way to avoid shame. It is relatively easy to not focus on “sinful” pleasures of the flesh. And it is simple acceptance that death is always part of life.
Many advanced elders find their own ways to spiritual calm, whatever works. The problem with any mortification, naturally, is how much, how far, how soon. No need to mortify too quickly.
Accepting death and irrelevance is all very well, but moments are still infinite and enchanted. The final end after all, will show up as it will, whether we accept it or not.









